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GUARDIANSHIP: AGING PARENT
When a parent can no longer manage on their own

If you're here, something has probably already worried you. A parent who is not quite themselves. Bills left unopened. A decision that put them at risk, or someone who seems to be taking advantage. Many families carry this quietly for a while, unsure whether it is their place to step in. 
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You are not overreacting, and you are not too late to ask. Guardianship is the last option, not the first, and most families who come to me worried do not end up needing it. Where we begin is figuring out what your parent actually needs, and the gentlest way to provide it.
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Everything turns on one question

Everything turns on whether your parent can still understand and make their own decisions. If they still can, even some of the time, even only on good days, there is likely a window to put the right protections in place while your parent can still choose them. A power of attorney for finances and a healthcare directive for medical decisions are faster, less costly, and private, and they let your parent choose you rather than have a court decide. If that window has closed, if the ability to understand these choices is gone, then guardianship may be the path, and I will walk you through every part of it. 


Waiting feels safer. It usually isn't. The simpler options can only be put in place while your parent still understands them, and that door can close after a single hospitalization, leaving only the harder, costlier path through court. When a family waits, someone else can sometimes step in first, with a different plan in mind. Acting sooner is how you stay the person your parent would have chosen. 

What families are often surprised to learn

After years of walking families through this, I see the same avoidable surprises again and again, none of them anyone's fault: 
  • Assuming guardianship was the only option, when something simpler would have worked.
  • Waiting for a crisis instead of acting while things were calmer.
  • Choosing who serves based on who's convenient, not who's genuinely suited to it. 
  • Underestimating the documentation the process requires. 
  • Letting quiet family disagreement go unspoken until it surfaces in court.
  • Not realizing that guardianship is an ongoing responsibility rather than a single filling. 


None of this is common knowledge, and there is no reason you would have known it going in. Most attorneys came to this work through law firms. I came through a career spent advocating for older adults and people the system often overlooked, which is part of why this work matters to me. When you are ready, we can sort out where you actually stand. 

What the process actually looks like

The first real step is almost always a conversation, not a filing. Before anything goes to court, we figure out whether your parent can still make their own decisions, because that single question decides everything that follows. If a power of attorney and a healthcare directive are still possible, that is usually the better path for your family and for your parent's dignity, and I make sure those documents are done in a way that will hold up if anyone questions them later. 
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​When guardianship is genuinely needed, it is a court process with real protections built in. We petition the court, and the court requires current medical evidence of your parent's incapacity, usually from a physician or psychologist who has evaluated them. Your parent is entitled to notice and to their own representation, and the court holds a hearing before any decision-making authority is transferred. I prepare the petition, gather the documentation the court expects, and stand with you through the hearing. 
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​If the court appoints a guardian, the responsibility does not end there. A guardian files regular reports with the court and carries real duties for as long as the guardianship lasts. I explain what that commitment involves before you take it on, so there are no surprises, and I am available afterward as questions come up. 
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​My job is to find the least intrusive arrangement that keeps your parent safe, and to carry the legal weight so you can focus on being their family.